Leo Aikman said, “You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him.”
What do say about others? Do you gossip or slag people off? I’ve always thought that if I insult or criticise people that gives others license to do the same to me. And I don’t want that. So if you hear me or yourself insulting or criticising others feel free to tell me off and maybe pull yourself up when you do it.